Women vs. Men

女人 vs. 男人

Source: TUMBLR

今天到Le Petit Blanc平實的法國餐廳用餐，和Huynji說Good-Bye (T_T)。

I had lunch with Huynji at Le Petit Blanc today.

Huynji這禮拜六就要坐飛機到美國哈佛上MBA；她的supervisor很不捨她，一直希望她留下來念博士...

She is going to the University of Harvard for the MBA course.  Her supervisor is keen to keep her since she is the most diligent student at the class.

談天的話題不外乎是近況、未來打算、與男朋友相處的狀況。

As usually, we talked about the current life, future plan, and the relationship with our boyfriends.

我跟她說，最近我和文吵架，只因為他跟我強調:“我甘願為你做牛做馬，因為我愛妳。“

I told her I had a quarrel with my boyfriend several days ago.  That was because he emphasized: I am willing to do anything for you since I love you.

我聽了十分生氣。

I was furious about that.

這個架吵起來，讓文實在摸不著頭緒：“我做錯了什麼？“。

我告訴他：“既然要愛，這些都是基本條件，不需要講出來。“

“我不說，你老以為我愛做“他辯駁。

“就算我認為你愛做，你愛要無怨尤的做，因為這是愛人的基本門檻“我氣呼呼回應。

In my opinion: this is a basic requirement to DO ANYTHING FOR SOMEONE if you love her.  Hence, it should not be regarded as a credit.

每次一吵架，最會說賭氣的話是年近四十的他（這次，他嚷嚷著以後不做家事了～切，幼稚！）；我都要很耐著性子跟他解釋：你應該報這樣的心態來愛我：【我不在乎你有沒有感受到我對你的愛，只要你肯給我機會讓我付出，對我就是天大的恩賜。】

I tried my best to explain to him: it do not matter whether I am aware of his love.  The point is: you have to keep paying without requiring feedback!!!

吵架，就暫時落幕。雖然文口頭上說他以後不會再犯這樣的錯，但我很確信，在心底還是深深認為自己沒錯。

Well, he promised that he will never make the same mistake ever.  I doubted that.

Huynji一聽完，totally understand my point!!!

Huynji told me she can totally get the point.

她完完全全知道問題出在哪：做就做，廢話這麼多幹嘛～何居心？

She said: Why bother?  Just do it.

哈，不愧是對盤的朋友。

Ha, Huynji is really my good friend!

Huynji，祝你一路順風喔！也希望你今年能申請到長春藤盟校藥學系博士班獎學金！

Huynji, I wish you the best of luck!  Hope you can get a permission of any schools among IVY LEAGUE.  Oh, the most important thing is: get one scholarship!!!